It's the way it is

Is it okay to want someone you love change they way they are just because you don't like how they are in the present? Is that still love? Shouldn't you be embracing their flaws? Really?


"Love doesn’t seem to follow a plan; it’s not a series of steps. It can hit with the force of nature—an earthquake, a tidal wave, a storm of wild relentless energy that is beyond your simple attempts at control."


But i think...

If you really love them at their best, you will love them at their worst too. That's love.